Thinking of Returning to Church?

Thank you for looking up this page. If you have done so because you are thinking about reconnecting with the Church please know that we have been thinking about you and we know how difficult it can sometimes be to take this step.

Our desire at St. Joseph’s at Loftus, Our Lady’s at Staithes and St Anthony’s at Brottonx is to offer you whatever assistance you need to help you feel welcome and comfortable within the Church once more.

There are many reasons, some very painful, why people give up their connection with the Church, but whatever your reasons Fr. Simon would be very pleased to meet you, to talk to you and to assist you. It may be only for a chat to introduce yourself or you may wish absolution or have other matters you wish to resolve.

What does Jesus say?

Jesus is a good story teller and his stories always have a point. In the Gospel of Luke, chapter 15, he tells the story of a young man returning home. The point of the story is the welcome he receives from his father which takes him completely by surprise. Jesus is telling us a truth we all need to know about God our Father:

While the young man was still a long way off his father saw him and his heart was filled with compassion for him. He ran to meet his son, threw his arms around him and kissed him tenderly. Then the son said to him, ‘Father, I am not worthy to be called your son.’ But his father wasn’t listening to him. He said to the servants, ‘Quick, get the best robe and put it on him, put a ring on his finger to let everyone know he is my son, put new sandals on his feet and kill the calf we have been fattening. We are going to have a feast to celebrate his homecoming.’

We all fall short. We are all unworthy but, nevertheless, we are all beloved children. Maybe the story invites you to trust.

Do you recognise yourself here?

Perhaps you were baptised as a Catholic, even made your First Communion, but you were never much part of the family of the Church. Your parents rarely came to Mass, so you didn’t either. Perhaps you stopped coming as a teenager, even after being confirmed. You found it boring. It wasn’t ‘cool’ to come to Church. It was so easy just to drift away quietly. Perhaps you were hurt by something said or done by someone at Church. You may still feel angry about it. We want you to know we are very sorry.

Perhaps you felt unworthy because of something you did. You felt uncomfortable being there because you knew deep in your heart that you were doing wrong. Perhaps your marriage broke down. You are now in a new relationship, even married again. Perhaps you cannot receive Communion, so you don’t see the point of coming. Whatever the reason you left, remember that you are a vital part of God’s family and we would love to welcome you back. Incidentally, If you have been away for a long time, you may find the Church today is quite different from the way you remember it.

If you would like to contact Fr. Simon and arrange a meeting please use the contact Page for further details.

The Presbytery,

Our Lady, Star of the Sea,

32 Staithes Lane, Staithes,

North Yorkshire. TS13 5AD

Telephone: 07952 922318

Emergency Contact: 07952922318

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Going into Hospital? Would like a visit?

If you are going into hospital and would like to receive either Holy Communion or the Sacrament of the Sick contact the nurse on the ward and ask to see a Catholic Priest. Or alternatively call Fr. Simon on 07952 922318 and he will come and visit you whilst you're in Hospital.